Yesterday I was so lucky to be celebrating Darby's dads, sisters wedding - phew that's a mouthful!
It was such a beautiful day, organised on a whim with so very little time, but on the day it all came together wonderfully! I was responsible for hair and makeup and then looked after my baby niece, their daughter throughout the ceremony.
She had other plans of watching her mum and dad tie the knot, instead she screamed and screamed in my arms for the entire ceremony and we missed the lot! Luckily it was short and sweet and she was back in her mums nurturing arms soon enough.
The Melbourne day was steamy, everyone was a little tired after battling through a very hot evening, but there was a sense of joy and emotion that fills the air when a wedding is involved.
Now this is not my own family, but a family that opened up there arms and welcomed me into their lives 8 years ago. I know I am in it for life! I realise how special it is to be included. Even since our separation I have never ever ever been treated any differently by Dave's family.
At the Lunch that followed on from the ceremony, I sat on the family table next to Dave, it was fine, he can still be lovely and caring and and he also rib me quite well, I forget that he doesn't have much tact!
It felt like a blast from the past, although as so much time has passed since we were together, I can roll my eyes at his jibes and enjoy myself catching up with the rest of his family!
Darby had so much fun and revelled in the celebrations, clapping when clapping was needed and cheering where required. He was beaming and did so well as it was such a big day for him.
He loves his Aunty Corrie and Uncle Ray, they have been amazing role models to him, and it is so nice that he has the opportunity of forming a close bond with his cousin.
I am really so grateful I could be part of such a special day, I am so thankful that I live in such a modern and mature world, that despite a separation, I still feel as though I play a part in the family so dear to my heart.
Linking up today with Bron from Maxabella Loves for 52 Weeks of Grateful
What a lovely day, Jane. And so great that you can enjoy an amicable relationship with Darby's dad and his dad's family. You look gorgeous - as usual - by the way. xx
ReplyDeleteI was going to say what Deb said. It can be hard for families when a couple splits. They have a relationship with both sides too and I bet they just love seeing you and Darby. I love your dress.
ReplyDeleteBeautifully written. I can imagine it could be difficult to continue relationships after so much change has happened. Looks like it was a lovely day and that blue dress looks so good on you!
ReplyDeleteI seriously adore that first photo of you and Darby. what a gorgeous gorgeous shot. You already know how amazing I think you guys are for keeping your relationship the way it is, if for nothing else for Darby. That is such a gift you have given him and such an unselfish act of love for your little guy from both you and Dave xx
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