Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Monday, January 7, 2013

Sunday lunch in the country


On Sunday we travelled to the lovely little town of Trentham, an hour or so out of Melbourne. It's a quaint little town, not unlike Daylesford, but on a much smaller scale. 

We were there to meet my mums family for our {belated} Christmas Celebration and also to commemorate my Granny. It would have been her 94th  birthday on that day. 
We try and get together on her birthday every year, it doesn't always happen, but  when we do, we like to toast a glass of champagne in her honour. 

We have a small close knit  family, my mum, her sister and brother (my other uncle is still in the NT), their husbands and wives and my cousin, my sister, Darby and I.

It was a lovely day. The setting was perfect, sitting in the beautiful serene garden of the local hotel, big vast trees providing the shade. It was warm, but not too hot. Lush green leaves and perfect blue sky. Can it get any better really? 

There were lots of laughs and drinks with Darby providing the entertainment, trying to guess everyone's age and playing a game stacking all the hats on one head, everyone had a turn. I also got to try out my new camera. {I have so much to learn!} 

But the day was still tinged with sad moments, of raw, naked emotions that catch us when we least expect them too. Thats the thing about Grief.  Where all that can be done is to offer our tears and our hugs. 

This is our first Christmas celebration without our gorgeous cousin. She was here last Christmas. That was a heartbreaking Christmas.  Hard to think almost a year has gone by since she passed away. 

It feels like it was yesterday.  F**k cancer. It is so cruel and unfair. 

Instead of giving each other presents we decided we would each donate some money to her palliative care unit, who provided great support in her final months. 

These family celebrations will never be the same without her {and her incandescent laugh}.  

She is dearly missed. 












Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Wordless Wednesday- Family Portrait!

Don't we all love a good family photograph??? We are always striving for a good one.. but  since giving mum and dad a camera a few years back, they love taking a family snap, by none other than the Tripod set up! Its a funny photo in itself watching dad set up the timer.. and see if he can beat it to his chair!! Here are a few family pictures.. some taken with a tripod, some without!! 

Who does the Family Portrait with a Tripod??
This is the latest in the series of tripod pictures from the weekend camping!
And includes the extra family member - Millie dog

This is an actual photographers shoot!! Love my constipated look!!

My love of photo taking if defiantly a genetic thing!!

My Little Drummer BoysI am Linking up today with Trish for Wordless Wednesday at  My Little Drummer Boys
Until next time, Life is too short for crappy coffee


Monday, March 12, 2012

Camping... For or against???

Darby and Aunty Laura
Posing with the big Wombat.... I had the most expensive 
and yummy hot cross buns in hand... I look 
happy.. before I got delirious!!
Who would have thought I would change my mind on camping?? Certainly not me, thats for sure! 
Yes I am one of those annoying people who couldn't think of anything worse than sleeping in a tent... and going rough! 
I like my creature comforts, my idea of a weekend away involves a cabin by the beach, with a proper bed and my own toilet and shower. not roughing it in the bush. 
But after this weekend I may have changed my mind ... just a little 


My parents are complete opposites to me and love nothing more than getting down and dirty (well you know what I mean) .. and love camping... They go away a few times a year, they have a camper trailer... and every accessory you could have with a tent! 
I always make fun of myself at how precious I am about camping! 


I'm not saying I have never camped... 


As part of my parents camping obsession I remember most of our holidays involving sleeping in a tent as a kid.. I also went on an around Australia trip when I was about 13 for 6 weeks... That involved our little family of four sleeping all cozied up in a two man tent! Very snug to say the least! 
Then a few years later, I went on a Central Australian school camp for 2 weeks... with every night sleeping in a tent with my best friend!  I think since then I have avoided camping trips altogether! I hate the set up, the pack up, and the uncomfortable mattresses.. oh and that eerie feeling of being out alone in the wilderness!! I think my camping days were over once I saw the Blair Witch Project! (undoubtedly the scariest movie I have ever seen!) 
I would do it if I had too... but to be honest I always squirm when someone mentions the C word! 
I always have my bad hips to fall back on... well it isn't good for me to sleep on a mattress with no support... 
But after seeing my parents set up on the weekend ... I am thinking a night camping could be a relaxing trip away... (for one night at least!!!) 

So on Saturday, my sister, Darby and I went on a road trip to visit mum and dad who were camping with their dog Millie, in the bush near Trentham - a small town about 15 mins from Woodend and from Daylesford.. 
The only problem was, we didn't really ask for directions of where  they were staying.. and without any mobile range, we had to guess.. and yep you guessed it ... ended up doing a lot of travelling to find them!! 

We  left Melbourne around 12pm, the idea was to spend a few hours with them at their camp site.. we arrived in Trentham just after 1pm, and after numerous attempts to call them, we took ourselves off to the visitors centre to find out where the nearest camping grounds were.. the logical thing to do, right? So after being told the nearest camping grounds were 15 km away in a little town called Blackwood.. we decided that mum and dad must be there.. as we knew they were a little way out of Trentham... so with that.. we went and got some food as we were all starving ..We found an artisan bakery heaving with people.. it was almost like being back in Melbourne... I eyed off the hot cross buns and bought a six pack - $14... the most expensive hot cross buns i have bought.. but they were worth it.. they were still warm, just out of the oven and were delicious... I got into one straight away! 
We then went to another bakery, picked up a few pasties and sausage rolls... and went on our way! It would have been nice to have a look around as there were many gorgeous shops.. it was very much like a smaller scaled back version of Daylesford and somewhere I will have to visit again... The highlight for Darby was the most interesting animal statues in an antique store... They looked soo real!! 
We jumped back in the car... scoffed some food and headed off to this caravan park... when we got there, we looked around for the familiar white Ute, but we could not find them... with multiple calls to see if we could get on to them, we decided we would call it a day and go back to Melbourne, very grumpy and tired at this point! 


We were on our way back, when we got into range, and our phones started beeping with multiple voice mails, and messages!! Arrgghhhhh... so we turned around again and headed back to Trentham.. met our dad and followed him into the wilderness... They were camping in the bush bush... no toilets or showers involved... eeekk!! I was freaking out!! 
Even though we were only going to stay for an hour or so.. my bladder was telling me I needed to go to the toilet, and the thought of sitting over a hole was somehow making me need to go even more!!  

We arrived at their campsite, where about 10 other campsites were set up.. mum and dad, had everything, their own kitchen, sink, stove,  a sitting room in their tent, and a bed on a proper mattress, propped up on a camper trailer,  tables, chairs, campfire...they had the lot!! 


This was much more deluxe than the camping I remember as a kid... Maybe I could get used to this! After a cup of tea and some toasted marshmallows by the fire, I was sold... and said I would come next time.. maybe just for a night!! Even the toilet was ok! Although that may change when it comes to going in the middle of the night! 


My main fears of the creepie crawlies are as not so bad when its winter...And Darby loved it!! He would have a ball!! I don't want to rob him of something that I was so very lucky to do as a kid! 
Even after all that travel, we felt as if we had been away for quite awhile!! Getting out of the city and into peaceful bushland was what we all needed! 

I could get used to sitting by the camp fire!!
My mum, dad, Millie dog and Darby!! Camping is fun!

Looking Right at home!
My Little Batman - six pack and all

The rest of our weekend involved,  relaxing, mixed in with loads and loads of walking.. a weekend without a car, meant we didn't go far... Batman had a sleepover at his Aunty and Uncles.. We caught up with Darbys dad and went out for Breakfast on Sunday and Monday and just stayed around home!! Luckily the weather was gorgeous so we didn't mind being outside! My pedometer got a good workout too!! Although I cant wait for my car to be fixed and back in my garage!

Who loves camping??? What is your idea of a good weekend away? 
I am linking up with the adorable and gorgeous Son at Life Love & Hiccups.... and read about her hilarious antics at learning how to master a SLR camera.... Fab read as always!
Life Love and Hiccups

Until next time , life is too short  to drink crappy coffee... 



Sunday, November 27, 2011

Wonderful weekend by the beach..... sans sunshine!!

I'm not sure if it was coincidental or on purpose that my family had planned a weekend to the beach on my birthday weekend..!! Even though I will be leaving work in a few short weeks.. I desperately needed to recharge my batteries.. Its going to be a tough and busy few weeks and I need all the energy I  can conserve.. 
We headed to Inverloch.. about 150 kms from Melbourne, me squashed in the back seat with Darb's, and mum and dad taking their usual posses in the front!!  It felt very  deja vu aka 20 years ago! Although this time I was feeling slightly on the seedy side (too many birthday G &T's the night before)... So I  did my best and tried to sleep the morning away whilst being poked by a 4 year old!! 
Unfortunately the weather didn't prove spectacular as first forecast ... raining all day Saturday, in fact.. but just being away from home, with no internet was relaxing... Beach.... what beach.. it  certainly wasn't beach weather, but heck we were staying in pure luxury so the location was easily forgotten! Our 'beach" house had every luxury you could ask for, just what I needed, all it was missing was a few butlers to get my cups of tea!!!
 So the weekend consisted of :
❤ One terrible and one amazing coffee...pretty happy with that score !!!
Yummy Birthday Cake for me!!!
❤ Winning 3 games of golf on the WII .. (and losing 1 dance off competition to some very lame 80's music! (Im hoping my sister has deleted the incriminating video!!) 
  5 pieces of Birthday Cake - a very yummy banana, pineapple and passionfruit cake with cream cheese icing mmmm
  7 games of Guess Who.. I kicked arse at it, albeit for a little cheating when everyone else was drunk! 
❤ No ALCOHOL... WOOHOO
❤ 1 walk to the beach for some sandcastle stomping, (just as it began to rain)
❤ 2 meals that contained chips... this will lead to my new diet starting today!!!!!
In all of this down time I did have a chance to do some reading .... I managed to find a gorgeous store selling inspirational and motivational books.. I picked up a book titled "YES" full of positive quotes about celebrating the joy of living fully!  At the house we were staying at there were books that I flicked through (but should have read more of) -  "Where will you be five years from today!"   This is one of my favourite quotes ... 
" Always Remember you are BRAVER than you believe, STRONGER than you seem, SMARTER thank you think and TWICE AS 
BEAUTIFUL as you'd ever imagined....."
I wish I could listen to that message a little more often when I am doubting myself..... although after a weekend of indulging I can't really see the beautiful side behind my chubby cheeks!  I am in a good need of losing 10 kgs or so..... I think Ill start now before the Festive Kilos creep on..... I wish my skinny Xmas tree could take some of my fat, It seems to be taunting me all starving branches in the corner!! 
Ahh... I think that is enough whinging for the day... all in all I had a wonderful birthday weekend... with my very sweet family, they do a great job of looking after me when times are tough... so a break away like this is the perfect remedy! 
Until next time..... 
I will hopefully have drunk more on my coffee list!


Today I am linking up with the gorgeous Sonia at Life Love and Hiccups


Life Love and Hiccups

Darbs walking the line!
Blue Eyes... Darbs and I 
Having a dip in the freezing Spa!
Laura and Darbs having a coffee
Beach time and looking super stylish!
Say Cheeessseeee
Looking happy after a decent
coffee!! Yay!




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